I am in a season that most people around me don’t get. Especially those who interacted with me in the past season where I was robust, cheerful, extremely social and basically a full-time sanguine.
It’s such a sharp contrast to the current me. Mostly locked up in the house, silent, melancholic, and withdrawn. I could easily use being unemployed as a scapegoat but I know that’s not it. My health issues are at the forefront yes, but I’m also brooding.
On the outside, it appears as though nothing is happening. Mentally, I feel this buzz that hasn’t produced something tangible but I can literally feel things cooking. Yes, brooding also like a hen. Looking like all it’s doing day in and day out is just lying there doing nothing. However, underneath she knows things will be hatching soon and the world will see what it was all about.
Mentally… this brain of mine is probably going to get me in trouble with a number of people. People who knew me in previous seasons and already have the picture of who I’m supposed to be. People who sadly hadn’t realised how defying the norm comes so naturally to me.
I’m always changing and always morphing into something new. Which can be baffling to most. But I got used to it and embraced it because it’s an innate and integral part of me. I already fully accepted the fact that I am a multipotentialite/scanner and I’ll always be hopping from season to different season.
Maybe that’s what makes it easier for me to retreat when a season ends. Most times it’s fuelled by the feeling that people in my previous season would not understand or support my following one. Sometimes it comes with the friction that occurs when they disagree with you about choices required for the season you’re stepping in. Other times it’s simply that they were there for a season and it came to an end.
Now back to my current moment. Let’s just say over time, I’d slowly been gaining the boldness to be unapologetic about who I am, where I’m at and what I believe in at the moment. It snowballed and became an unstoppable force. So right now, it’s becoming evident.
I’m no longer willing to sacrifice who I am to make people comfortable. I have come to embrace the discomfort that comes with refusing to fit into the mould society set. I am not afraid of staying with little or no money for a while as I try build up on the things I need to do. I’ve been broke enough times in the recent past that it doesn’t shake me no more. I have learnt to prioritise my wellness (physical, mental and emotional) and I don’t regret taking days just to recover. I have become very keen on taking care of my skin, hair and body generally just for myself and not because I want to look good for people.
This new season has come with so much freedom and peace! I feel pretty liberated and happy. My mind has room to fully bloom and be itself. I’m not afraid of what would happen or who I’d become if I allowed it to fully function and question things. I have stopped being afraid of the force I always felt within; the kind people said had potential to make me extremely wild. As if being wild is a bad thing! People have problems with people they label wild because they couldn’t tame them and they get offended because these wild souls refused to fit into expectations of what society set for humans.
I am not unaware of the eyebrows that will be raised, tongues that will wag, controversies that would arise or confusion that will grow. But hey, whenever did you see change occurring without plenty of realignment and opposition? 😉😊